Why Low Engagement Does Not Mean You Are Failing
One of the hardest parts of creating online is not making the work. Believe me, I know! In fact I rarely create at all now because of the number of hard parts included in being an artist. The only chance I get to create are taking parts in the art prompts I add for other artists on Pixels.com No, one of the hardest parts of creating online is not making the work is posting something you genuinely care about, watching it drift into the world… and hearing absolutely nothing back except the faint emotional sound of tumbleweed rolling through your notifications.
No comments.
No shares.
Possibly one polite “Lovely work” from a loyal friend who appears on every post. (I have about 5 of these people who I love more than anything for their unfailing friendship, looking at you Melissa and Kathy especially along with Robin who follows my blog even though just finding it xx)
Most creators experience this feeling at some point, yet many still treat low engagement as proof that they are failing.
Usually, it is not.
Low engagement can mean many things, and most of them have very little to do with the quality of your work.
Sometimes the timing was wrong.
Sometimes the platform barely showed the post to anyone.
Sometimes your audience was asleep, distracted, working, travelling, doom-scrolling, or collectively staring at a breaking news story involving celebrities, politics, or a raccoon stealing crisps from a supermarket.
The internet is chaos with its scroll, scroll, scroll, everyone wanting you to do something.
This is why judging your value entirely through likes and comments is dangerous. Social media numbers are often wildly inconsistent. The same creator can post two equally strong pieces and watch one soar while the other quietly disappears into the algorithmic fog without explanation.
That is not failure. That is the nature of online visibility.
Unfortunately, many artists and creators respond emotionally to quiet posts.
They stop posting.
They panic and change style completely.
They assume nobody cares.
They begin creating only for approval instead of for connection, growth, or long-term audience building.
This is usually where the real damage begins.
Marketing is not a slot machine where you pull a lever once and instantly receive success, applause, and mysterious riches delivered by algorithmic woodland creatures. It is repetition. Presence. Consistency. Visibility built slowly over time.
People often need to see your work repeatedly before they remember you properly. Familiarity matters online. Quietly showing up again and again builds recognition far more effectively than one “viral” moment followed by silence.
A creator who posts steadily for years often outperforms somebody who appears briefly in a blaze of enthusiasm before vanishing entirely.
There is also another uncomfortable truth many people avoid discussing. Your audience is not sitting online waiting specifically for your post. That sounds harsh, but it is actually freeing. People are busy. Distracted. Overwhelmed. Social media feeds move at absurd speed. A missed post is not rejection. Quite often, it simply was not seen.
This is why resilience matters far more than perfection.
The creators who survive long term are rarely the ones who never experience quiet posts. They are the ones who continue anyway.
They refine. Adjust. Learn. Experiment. Improve captions. Test timing. Try different crops, titles, thumbnails, colours, products, or approaches. They treat marketing as a process instead of a final judgement on their worth.
And eventually, something shifts.
A post gains traction.
A buyer appears.
Someone remembers your work from weeks ago.
A follower becomes a customer.
A quiet audience slowly becomes a loyal one.
Most of this happens far more slowly than people expect.
The modern internet encourages the illusion that success should be immediate, constant, and loudly visible. Real audience-building is usually much quieter than that. It is gradual and cumulative, like building layers of paint on canvas rather than throwing glitter at a wall and hoping destiny takes over.
The difficult part is continuing during the quiet phase, when effort and reward seem completely disconnected.
But that quiet phase exists for almost everybody.
Even large creators, successful artists, and experienced marketers have posts that vanish without ceremony into the social media abyss. The difference is that experienced people usually shrug, learn what they can, and move on to the next thing instead of treating every flop like a personal tragedy.
Because sometimes the healthiest marketing strategy in existence is simply this:
“Well that flopped… anyway, next one.”
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Still reading this, neck’s getting a crick in it from nodding in agreement so often!!
Will be back later (barring calamity).
Just one pre-comment comment: I’ve been futzing around on the internet since the early 2000’s. So many early blogging/social sites! Being “ignored” hurts, yes. But “ignoring” implies intent, and, as someone once said to me when I was whining that I’d gone invisible again, “You’re not that important.” Ouch!! But it’s true! People have lives. Things happen. We can let it hurt but we shouldn’t stop trying. OK, now I really have to go away bec I’m trying to figure out why I can hear a very short audio file on my latest WP post but someone else can’t. I need to have someone else listen but no one’s visiting.
Will be back. If not today, then tomorrow. LOVE this post! Will share it when I return. ::waves::
link?
Hi, Abbie! A link to the audio test post?
The 2nd one:
https://facesbyrobinking.wordpress.com/2026/05/15/audio-file-test-2/
The 1st one:
https://facesbyrobinking.wordpress.com/2026/05/14/this-is-only-an-audio-file-test-but-if-its-silly-enough-ill-publish-it/
Thank you!! You’re so nice to check! 🥰
I’m back! Finished reading, absorbing. You make an outstanding argument here, for not only patience but also resilience. I spent most of my career w/people who were paid for their ability to follow directions and not deviate from them for any reason. When something went wrong my group came in, to figure out what had happened, why, & how to prevent a recurrence of the difficulty. We made pharmaceuticals; lives depended on our creative and effective thinking. I mention this bec it’s a similar situation to be in, for those who want to “be seen” so they can be successful in selling, etc. We may not have rigid procedures to follow but we all operate within the same internet-universe and we’re all trying to do pretty much the same thing. Norms apply. It’s when views dry up or never arrive to begin with that we need to be the creative beings we naturally are bec there’s no remediation group like mine to swoop in and fix things (unless we have marketing teams, agents, etc.). And, unfortunately, being creative types, we can be TOO creative, trying too many things, making too many changes & too many wackiola decisions too fast, which often alienate the few viewers we do have. Creative, yes. Resilient, yes. And also a little bit scientific.
Try new things in organized ways. Gather data. Test assumptions. Patience and resilience matter a lot. When I look around your site here I see soooooo many things I want to try! But one step at a time, always analyzing the effects.
You’re splendid at this! I hope that more eyes and minds find your amazing corner of the interwebs. They’ll surely benefit from the discovery.
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Well. That was a long-winded comment, hunh? I hope you don’t mind long comments. I also hope that you were notified about my recent replies to you (re the audio files).
I’ll stop now. Will share this post tomorrow. 🙂
PS I’m not proofing this so I hope it’s all legible. But tupos sre half the fun. LOL 🤣
Me, again. Shared this. 👋
https://facesbyrobinking.wordpress.com/2026/05/16/are-you-a-failure-if-you-arent-racking-up-views-likes-comments-or-sales/